making connections that can grow with time

Sand dollars form their unique patterns naturally and meticulously, just as we cultivate connections that evolve and strengthen over time. Each pattern emerges from the slow accumulation and layering of materials, reflecting the gradual development of our relationships. This slow crafting process in nature is similar to how we strengthen bonds through time, patience, and shared experiences.

Intricate connections take time to form.

Every stage adds depth and character.

Their unique journeys create distinct, lasting impressions.

…a lot like a desired relationship or connection with other people.

These natural imprints on sand dollars are a beautiful metaphor for the detailed, often unnoticed, growth in our connections. There are so many little things that have to happen in order for patterns emerge through patient growth and yet, they are often overlooked.

And like each distinct pattern on a sand dollar reflects the subtle, yet specific process of formation, the same is true of the process it takes in relations to cultivate stories, memories, and love in intertwined lives. May this comparison serve as a reminder that as the details take time to form, with careful, gentle attention, there are new ways that love can continue to grow with time.

May there be space to gradually and deliberately nurture the bonds that enrich our lives.

– Morgan Harper Nichols


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