You are free to create space to explore what flourishing might look like in a more open-ended way. In those moments where you feel overwhelmed by external expectations, taking time to ask “what does it mean to flourish right here,” is giving yourself permission to grow at your own pace.
One of the misconceptions that might arise from a word like “flourishing” is that it may imply a state of perpetual happiness or visible achievements.However, flourishing doesn’t only have to mean constant, dramatic progress. Instead, like a plant growing steadily, it unfolds gradually over time. From the roots that are hidden beneath the surface, to the quiet, quiet unfurling of new leaves that is often barely noticed, to flourish is to engage in a full life in a million little ways, one day at a time.
Take a moment to reflect: How do you typically think about flourishing in your own life? Have you ever felt pressure to achieve constant happiness or visible successes? When were you able to allow yourself space for gradual growth?
In those moments where you feel the pressure to perform or meet certain external expectations, may you know that doesn’t that nothing is happening here. There are many ways to consider how you might be flourishing in this very space, right here where you are.
For some, flourishing in this season of life might look like expanding horizons
For others, it could be more subtle, deepening existing connections.
One person might consider flourishing might look like being courageous amidst a big change, while another, gentle refinement.
What it means to flourish can be very different for each person. It can also change as you go through different parts of your life.
When it comes to flourishing, you are allowed to embrace exploration over a rigid, old definition. The concept of flourishing can be about creating space to explore it in an open-ended way. Flourishing doesn’t have to mean constant dramatic progress. It can include hidden, quiet developments like the roots of a plant or the unfurling of new leaves. Let flourishing happen one day at a time. – Morgan Harper Nichols
